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by heddylamar
Tue Jul 05, 2022 2:11 am
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Help! Overheated or anhidrosis?
Replies: 26
Views: 3088

Re: Help! Overheated or anhidrosis?

Quelah wrote:Don't have to bother scraping if you can keep pouring the cold water on (this has also been established through studies).

I'm at a new barn, and they don't know the — now decades old — science behind this :?
by heddylamar
Sun Jul 03, 2022 11:08 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: The Heat is ON: July/August Goals and Progress
Replies: 348
Views: 995577

Re: The Heat is ON: July/August Goals and Progress

I hope you find the right spot for Obie. If you were near west TN, I could point you to my equine retirement resort — Mom :D
by heddylamar
Sun Jul 03, 2022 11:05 pm
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Help! Overheated or anhidrosis?
Replies: 26
Views: 3088

Re: Help! Overheated or anhidrosis?

Before hosing, did she check the temp of his feet? And take his body temp? If hand walking and cold hosing his chest don't drop the temp, try an ice bath for his front feet. You'll need to start with room temp water, and slowly add ice once he's standing with his foot in the bucket. Shallow ground f...
by heddylamar
Thu Jun 30, 2022 2:59 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

I have nothing to close out other than I actually managed to ride!

And I've even ridden in Texas! After Maia got herself cast, and tried to black her own eye :roll:
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 20, 2022 7:31 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

Maia’s now a Texas horse 8-)

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So far she hasn’t demanded AC! There is a gelding at her new barn with his own minisplit. On the new BO’s advice, I’m leaving her on electrolytes.
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 13, 2022 1:48 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

We're hitting the road Wednesday for mom's farm in TN, then on to TX on Sunday. Poor Maia is going to melt. Fortunately, it's all interstate, so she'll have some AC by way of wind. I've already started her on electrolytes and probiotics. I may shave her (non-existent coat) during our 3-day stopover...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 13, 2022 3:21 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

We're hitting the road Wednesday for mom's farm in TN, then on to TX on Sunday. Poor Maia is going to melt. Fortunately, it's all interstate, so she'll have some AC by way of wind. I've already started her on electrolytes and probiotics. I may shave her (non-existent coat) during our 3-day stopover ...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 13, 2022 3:14 am
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Vaccine reactions
Replies: 25
Views: 6413

Re: Vaccine reactions

Since we're moving to a new barn in less than a week(!), Maia got all her vaccines in one go this year and had no reaction :roll: I gave Anz her vaccines in pieces — she's ensconced at mom's farm through at least fall.
by heddylamar
Tue Jun 07, 2022 11:17 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

Sometimes I just don't know why my students horse is not giving the correct response. I get on and they give it. It makes me feel less adequate as a teacher. Why the heck can't I tell the rider how to produce the response the horse knows how to give. It's so often in the canter transition too. As a...
by heddylamar
Mon Jun 06, 2022 2:31 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Kittens!
Replies: 96
Views: 28246

Re: Kittens!

You're bringing all five home, right?!
by heddylamar
Sat Jun 04, 2022 4:16 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

I’ve ridden Maia several days in a row again :D And we have a signed lease in Texas! Yesterday’s ride was entertaining. After I took case of all her itchy spots, Maia was nearly comatose tacking up. Then we went outside, the head went up, and my sleepy mare suddenly resembled a giraffe on speed :lol...
by heddylamar
Tue May 31, 2022 11:41 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

I have news: our house is SOLD!!! Closing is June 17, but we signed the paperwork today that essentially signs the ownership of the house over to the DH's company's relocation service. They do all the rest of closing. Movers will be here in 13 days, and us, the piggies, and Maia get on the road in 1...
by heddylamar
Mon May 30, 2022 11:12 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

Oy. Ignore their manipulation! Yes, some horses do better when occupied. I have two of those mares. But just because they need to be mentally busy doesn't mean they're not prone to burnout too. I give them time off interspersed with regular work, plus frequent excursions. Even just a walk down the d...
by heddylamar
Thu May 26, 2022 4:30 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

There's no reason you'd need to curtail your riding post-op, Chisamba. My mom has been riding more since getting the new hip, even though she had to give up running marathons. To replace the running, she picked up weight training and started backpacking again.
by heddylamar
Thu May 26, 2022 4:23 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Wintec saddles and full seat breeches
Replies: 12
Views: 2349

Re: Wintec saddles and full seat breeches

I gave myself road rash riding in full seat tights in the summer. Tried them a second time — after a very generous application of body glide — with the same result and concluded sticky full seats are not for me.
by heddylamar
Thu May 12, 2022 12:22 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

Ouch, blob!! Get your finger checked out. The last time I broke a finger it was a compound fracture (I will spare you the second finger fracture details). Other than a slight funkiness when folding the finger down, it is fully functional. That functionality is all due to my frequent flyer miles with...
by heddylamar
Sun May 01, 2022 6:33 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: NINE DAYS
Replies: 15
Views: 3191

Re: NINE DAYS

Take yourself out for a celebratory drink with Miss A!
by heddylamar
Sun May 01, 2022 6:01 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread
Replies: 384
Views: 86964

Re: April showers bring May flowers and June bugs. Our goals and progress thread

I'll just be happy if I get to ride these two months!! I kept Maia in MD (v. dropping her off with my mom too) because "of course I'll have time to ride" :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: I want to know what my past self was smoking because I desperately need that happy juice right now! Between new ...
by heddylamar
Sat Apr 30, 2022 12:44 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

Chisamba wrote:Still too anxious about flying changed.


Are you breathing through the changes? Being very deliberate about my breaths works wonders if I'm trying to work Anz out of being anxious. Works great for my mom too.
by heddylamar
Tue Apr 19, 2022 9:26 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

Anz and I drove through the rain, hail, sleet/graupel, snow, sleet/graupel, snow, sleet, rain, and finally some dry pavement yesterday to get to our overnight accommodations. I am disappointed we didn't get locusts too! After that hairy start — and some white-knuckled "wtF are you driving so fa...
by heddylamar
Mon Apr 18, 2022 2:11 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

Do it, Chisamba!! If something happens and you're not up to riding the baby, you've got students. I've ridden Maia four times this week! She's been a lunatic, running hollering to the fence when I yell for her :lol: and strangely sedate under saddle. She's got a week off because I'm hauling her momm...
by heddylamar
Fri Apr 15, 2022 2:00 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Barisone Trial
Replies: 44
Views: 8496

Re: Barisone Trial

I find it absolutely terrifying that people use guns to settle arguments.
by heddylamar
Mon Apr 11, 2022 10:52 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

I'm feeling much better, and have been doing daily groundwork with a very bouncy energetic Maia since Wednesday. Today was the first day she was semi-sane, but I had no time to ride between clients and Maia's bodywork appointment. She got her bum (and shoulders, face, legs ... everything) stuck full...
by heddylamar
Sat Apr 09, 2022 2:46 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Head tossing/head shaking
Replies: 33
Views: 4069

Re: Head tossing/head shaking

Does he toss his head on the lunge line?
by heddylamar
Tue Apr 05, 2022 3:10 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

Some day I will ride again /sigh I had surgery on March 15 that was supposed to finally resolve a congenital defect (40+ years later :roll: ), and am now dealing with unexpected repercussions that may result in further surgery /sigh AND we're in the midst of moving, putting the house on the market, ...
by heddylamar
Wed Mar 30, 2022 4:54 pm
Forum: Senior Horses/Senior Riders
Topic: Oldster on a hunger strike---farewell to 'K'
Replies: 47
Views: 13361

Re: Oldster on a hunger strike---farewell to 'K'

I'm so sorry, Texsuze.
by heddylamar
Mon Mar 28, 2022 5:16 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

@Blob Yes, we can ride out in the dressage fields! She doesn't have a ton, but she does have some. If I go that way, I'll also inquire about bringing in 4x rail-only jumps, so we can train. She seems open to the idea. I'm loving the vegan food scene here, @Demi ! We've got a friend who's a chef dow...
by heddylamar
Mon Mar 28, 2022 3:01 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

I'm in San Antonio for a few days checking out neighborhoods and barns. So far we have one barn that's fully dressage, but fairly flexible in terms of what each horse needs. So Maia requiring soaked grain didn't even get a raised brow. And the BO has another boarder who lives out 24/7, so Maia would...
by heddylamar
Thu Mar 24, 2022 8:05 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: I just got a horse trailer, tips?
Replies: 43
Views: 5714

Re: I just got a horse trailer, tips?

Learning to back a gooseneck has been a whole 'nother learning curve and quite humbling. :lol: I'm trading rigs with my mom in a few weeks — we're moving, and my truck is not a fun drive on the interstate — and will be hauling her gooseneck. I've hauled her gooseneck several thousand miles, and tha...
by heddylamar
Thu Mar 24, 2022 6:00 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: I just got a horse trailer, tips?
Replies: 43
Views: 5714

Re: I just got a horse trailer, tips?

Learn to park. You can't presume everywhere will have drive forward/through parking. Learn to back into a space, around things, much like backing a car into a parking spot. Empty parking lots with lines (and curbs, eventually) are perfect for practicing. It will teach the spacial awareness that you'...
by heddylamar
Thu Mar 17, 2022 6:56 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

Moutaineer wrote:I may end up in prison for Farriercide. Though I think my defense will be strong.

Of course, he may yet turn up.


I fired a farrier after two late shows. I do my best not to be late and call if I am — twice in 16 years with the current farrier — and expect the same in return.
by heddylamar
Thu Mar 17, 2022 5:31 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Keeping calm and cantering on
Replies: 60
Views: 8122

Re: Keeping calm and cantering on

For the shoulder, have you tried counter bend? Maia and I had a similar issue — fairly balanced on the lunge, then really struggling with opening up the left shoulder. When we canter right, I'd put her in a counter bend, then straight, then bend. It took forever, and I did this alongside canter leng...
by heddylamar
Sat Mar 12, 2022 9:16 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Keeping calm and cantering on
Replies: 60
Views: 8122

Re: Keeping calm and cantering on

Maia gave a hard no to half seat. And sitting too deeply would either have her flying forward or slamming on the brakes. So I rode in knee patch breeches, and, on the advice of my trainer, sat lightly until she was better balanced. Canter lengthenings and spiral in/out kept her moving forward, even ...
by heddylamar
Fri Mar 11, 2022 6:09 pm
Forum: Rider health and fitness
Topic: Health and fitness 2022
Replies: 24
Views: 4450

Re: Health and fitness 2022

Congrats to @Chisamba and @Fzybtfrm!!
by heddylamar
Fri Mar 11, 2022 2:01 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Equine travel accommodations
Replies: 3
Views: 1124

Re: Equine travel accommodations

This is super helpful, thank you! I'm considering two places, and need to email them both. One looks like it has really high traffic, and is right up on the interstate. The other is a breeding operation (Belgians) two miles off the interstate. Both have good reviews. I'll be driving through on eithe...
by heddylamar
Wed Mar 09, 2022 10:34 pm
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Equine travel accommodations
Replies: 3
Views: 1124

Equine travel accommodations

Has anyone overnighted a horse somewhere while traveling? Anything I should be on the lookout for? The two places I'm considering both require proof of recent Coggins, and I'm vaccinating in the next few weeks. Both also have hookups for electric ... I'm going to ask about tents. Not that mine takes...
by heddylamar
Tue Mar 08, 2022 9:38 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: A horse that is "too forward"
Replies: 18
Views: 3168

Re: A horse that is "too forward"

Walking in tight serpentines in a super exaggerated nose to horse's knee flexion worked great for my old eventer. We warmed up at the canter, counter canter, and quick canter-walk transitions. Then the walk serpentines. By then she was normally relaxed and attentive enough that her anxiety didn't ta...
by heddylamar
Thu Mar 03, 2022 12:49 am
Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
Topic: tack trunks
Replies: 22
Views: 4226

Re: tack trunks

Too many urls, so new post. If I had a chance to redo my pick for a barn trunk, think I would do this: https://www.homedepot.com/p/Husky-25-in-Cantilever-Rolling-Tool-Box-230380/207138341 I use this to hold the equine first aid kit in the horse trailer. That top level of little containers is perfec...
by heddylamar
Wed Mar 02, 2022 7:09 pm
Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
Topic: tack trunks
Replies: 22
Views: 4226

Re: tack trunks

I would love tips too! My trailer has a built-in trunk at the front of the tack room. It's a black hole of long-forgotten stuff. I can't use boxes because of the shape (v-nose trailer), and the reusable shopping bag system I use in our chest freezer just doesn't work to contain larger bulkier items....
by heddylamar
Wed Mar 02, 2022 4:56 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress
Replies: 326
Views: 67111

Re: Looking forward to looking forward - March/April Goals and Progress

I don't know what I've done to Maia, but the BO's husband on the roof of the house with a leaf blower didn't even get a head twitch on Saturday. Then today she attempted to deposit me on my butt for squealing brakes on a car over a half-mile away. Maia also picked up the canter on the proper lead ea...
by heddylamar
Tue Mar 01, 2022 4:20 am
Forum: Veterinary, Nutrition, Grooming & Farrier Questions
Topic: Cough/hay dust allergy
Replies: 33
Views: 3958

Re: Cough/hay dust allergy

For my choker, the vets recommend slow-feeder hay nets and soaked grain, not soaked hay.
by heddylamar
Sun Feb 27, 2022 3:03 am
Forum: The Observation Lounge/ Cookbook Forum even Hot Topics
Topic: Sad News--Rockabilly
Replies: 26
Views: 5435

Re: Sad News--Rockabilly

Oh no. I knew she was ill, but didn't expect this.
by heddylamar
Wed Feb 16, 2022 2:29 am
Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
Topic: Useful visual guide to allowed attire
Replies: 22
Views: 3984

Re: Useful visual guide to allowed attire

I am so lost with the patterns. Accent stripes and patterns aren't allowed. Then they are. But supposedly only if they're subtle? Yeah right. So many of the "allowed" were in no way subtle. And I won't even get into the "tasteful" and "discreet" accents :lol: You couldn...
by heddylamar
Mon Feb 14, 2022 6:39 pm
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: New Year, New Goals - January-February 2022
Replies: 335
Views: 42105

Re: New Year, New Goals - January-February 2022

I know it's not ideal, but could you move facilities with your barn mates if you don't find the perfect place by then, Blob?
by heddylamar
Mon Feb 14, 2022 12:53 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: Spooking
Replies: 34
Views: 4400

Re: Spooking

I do a ton of groundwork with them before ever getting on their backs. Both on the ground and under saddle, Maia and Anz both know that shoulder- or haunches-in means business. It's awful hard to spook or misbehave while doing either, so if Anz is being skittish or Maia gathers herself in the "...
by heddylamar
Sat Feb 12, 2022 12:03 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: New Year, New Goals - January-February 2022
Replies: 335
Views: 42105

Re: New Year, New Goals - January-February 2022

It was so unseasonably warm today that I rode in a tank top and summer breeches :shock: I don't know if it was the heat, or shock that I rode her four times this week, but Maia decided she was on vacation, and was not at all interested in working. Pushing Maia forward is counterproductive. That girl...
by heddylamar
Mon Feb 07, 2022 3:29 am
Forum: Rider health and fitness
Topic: Health and fitness 2022
Replies: 24
Views: 4450

Re: Health and fitness 2022

I've been working remotely with the personal trainer 3.5 months now. Up until omicron, then lameness I hadn't had any time off riding during that time. Then a month+ off. When I got back on today, I was pleased to find that my "Move now. No, NOW." muscles are all in very fine shape. Poor M...
by heddylamar
Mon Feb 07, 2022 2:51 am
Forum: Dressage Training
Topic: New Year, New Goals - January-February 2022
Replies: 335
Views: 42105

Re: New Year, New Goals - January-February 2022

Woot! Woot! Woot! Maia is back to her normal self, finally. And she's feeling great. No lameness, all the Pokey-ness (Gumby's sidekick). Riding this evening was entertaining. "Let's play!!" "No." "But, kitty, in a tree!" "No." Much to Maia's disappointment, we...
by heddylamar
Wed Feb 02, 2022 1:56 am
Forum: Tack, Apparel, Facilities and Transportation
Topic: Bareback pads/ treeless saddles
Replies: 21
Views: 4083

Re: Bareback pads/ treeless saddles

So when my saddle fitter tightens my girth as tight as she can. I lean down and loosen it. She held at me because she claims uf I wore a backpack I wouldn't want it bouncing in my back. I always back off on the girth too and buy the super stretchy double-ended elastic type. Can you imagine being co...

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