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Loss

Postby Srhorselady » Thu Sep 14, 2017 11:32 pm

One of the problems with having senior horses is that in the natural course of events you lose them. I lost my Minature stallion Sparky last Sunday night. He was 25 and came into my life when a friend brought him to board with me about 15 years ago. Three years later I lost his owner to an inoperable brain tumor and Sparky became mine. He was a handsome perky guy, a silver dapple with a slate gray body and platinum long mane and tail. He had some chronic health issues, Cushings and Heaves, but his health had been stable for many years. It was a major shock to go out and find him breathing heavily with a fever over 105 F. I called the vet and started sponging with ice water. We got his fever down to 103, but his gums weren't good and his heart rate was at 200. The vet said the prognosis wasn't good, but he had started to act a Little livelier so I decided to haul to the hospital for blood tests and ultrasound. I wanted to give him a chance if at all possible. He wasn't good when we arrived and was euthanized shortly after. It's hard to lose them. Although he had no colic symptoms the surgeon on call is 80% sure there was either an obstruction or a twist.

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Re: Loss

Postby Tsavo » Thu Sep 14, 2017 11:47 pm

Huge loss. He sounds so wonderful. I am so sorry.

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Postby Flight » Thu Sep 14, 2017 11:51 pm

He sounds like he was lovely, so sorry for your loss :(

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Postby Moutaineer » Fri Sep 15, 2017 1:03 am

Ah, I'm sorry, that would leave a huge hole. I love my little guy--he's just such a huge character.

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Postby Chisamba » Fri Sep 15, 2017 3:15 am

My sympathy is so sad to say goodbye to the old ones.
I used to have a herd of aged horses and it turns out they passed one after the other. For a while I felt like a grim reaper.

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Postby amygdala » Fri Sep 15, 2017 3:36 am

so sorry you've lost Sparky-- i've lost a horse and a cat this year-- big holes!

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Re: Loss

Postby Backyarder3 » Sun Sep 17, 2017 10:57 pm

so sad, it's so hard...hugs

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Postby Josette » Mon Sep 18, 2017 12:09 am

I'm so sorry for your loss. He sounds like a sweet little guy. Sparky was the name of my little dog I lost this summer. He was my heart dog. :(

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Postby demi » Mon Sep 18, 2017 1:17 am

So sorry......so sorry

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Re: Loss

Postby Abby Kogler » Mon Sep 18, 2017 3:00 am

Sorry to read this sad post. Sometimes little ones have big personalities and sounds like Sparky was one of them. Take comfort knowing that you tried, and eased his suffering and sent him off, loved. Every animal should be so lucky.

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Re: Loss

Postby Srhorselady » Mon Sep 18, 2017 8:29 pm

Thank you all for your kind words. I really appreciate them. This has been a hard week and I've tried to keep busy. Since Sparky was one of my more "stable" seniors health wise, I'm now a little paranoid. I hauled the senior dog into the vet for blood tests since she has been drinking to excess and panting. After $300 plus in tests all is normal. I've also been checking the other four senior horses and the senior cat extra closely. I cleaned 6 bridles this weekend. And my brother (who lost a senior dog last month) and I scheduled a long discussed trip to visit an out of state elderly uncle. Losing one makes you realize how important all your seniors are. Thank you all.

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Postby PaulaO » Tue Sep 19, 2017 5:03 pm

I'm sorry for your loss of Sparky. Do you have a picture you could post of him? He sounds lovely.

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Re: Loss

Postby khall » Wed Sep 27, 2017 6:07 pm

I'm sorry for your loss. It is hard to lose them unexpectedly. Gopspeed Sparky.

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Postby DJR » Wed Sep 27, 2017 6:28 pm

I'm so sorry for your loss. I was just today thinking about the inevitable day (hopefully not for many, many years still) when I will lose one of mine, especially Jet who I've had almost 10 yrs now. It made me catch my breath just thinking about it, the enormity of the emotion I hold for each of them. So when I see posts about someonoe else losing their cherished horse, I so definitely "get it" as we all do.

May his spirit live within your heart forever.
formerly known as "Deanna" on UDBB -- and prior to that, as "DJD".

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Re: Loss

Postby Srhorselady » Thu Sep 28, 2017 9:37 pm

Thank you for your sympathy. There have been so many losses to people on this board recently. Every time it reminds me of all of mine. We wouldn't be on this board if we didn't treat our animals like family.

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Re: Loss

Postby Hayburner » Sat Sep 30, 2017 12:42 am

So sorry for loss. You gave him a good life and good care up to his final time with you. Take comfort knowing you were there for him.

As the owner of a 30 year old, I know each day I have him is a blessing.


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