My Lesson of the Month

[Imperini]

Is that I should hesitate less! I've been casually toying with the idea of buying my own horse as I'm in a position where it would be feasible financially and otherwise, but just casually so if I see a horse that seems incredibly perfect for me I'll contact otherwise I just keep looking, no maybes. I saw a horse a couple of weeks ago that sounded just perfect for me so I contacted, but then I hesitated and now he's sold Based on the disappointment I'm feeling over this maybe I am really ready and should start looking less casually.

[Kelo]

That is a bummer, but it is nice to be able to learn something from it! It also might also serve as a lesson for Rule #1 of horse buying......there is ALWAYS another horse out there. ALWAYS. So don't be too bummed.

And horse shopping can be fun! And by fun, I mean very stressful. But usually the result is worth it. Good luck!

[Sunshine2Me]

I agree with Kelo! That one didn't work out because the horse you are SUPPOSED to buy is still out there! Have fun in your search!

[boots-aregard]

I had that happen to me a couple times.

Both times, those horses ended up with lameness problems down the line, and I was secretly relieved.

NOT that the horse I subsequently bought was lameness-free, mind you!

[PaulaO]

I feel the same way--I am in place to own again and am casually, very casually, looking. Like if a perfect horse dropped into my lap. The thing is, I believe there is always another horse for you (or me). So don't be downhearted.

[Chisamba]

well, the disappointment is definitely a compass for your desires, so that is good. Good luck with finding the right horse

[Flight]

Sounds like you are ready to look more seriously! Exciting! Goodluck

[StraightForward]

Umm, so when do we get to start helping you shop?

[bailey]

I'm also casually looking and appreciate all the comments here. Very wise and good advice. I think we should tap into the DDBB and ask for help in shopping!

[Imperini]

Thanks everyone, I know realistically there will be another horse out there for me but it does help to hear it.

Perhaps there will be a VHS thread coming soon! Thinking about it more I will be incredibly picky though, I want a horse that will be with me for a long long time so that means getting the right one.